Still not dead

But not really here, either. However, thought I’d check in quickly.

Am moving to Seattle in the next week or so. Movers asked for a five-day window, so they could be here as early as Wednesday this week (today’s Monday) or as late as next Monday. A week from this Tuesday I’ll start the drive up. Bought a beautiful condo in the central area, on 15th, up on Capitol Hill.

Outside of condo Outside of condo
From dining room toward living room From dining room toward living room
From living room toward dining room From living room toward dining room
Notice the lovely French doors
Dining room toward kitchen Dining room toward kitchen
Yes, very tiny kitchen

Last weekend I went to New Orleans with a friend. It was great fun.

New Orleans building New Orleans building
More buildings More buildings
Iron work detail Iron work detail
Our lovely hotel Our lovely hotel

This weekend I said good-bye to Little Cat, said good-bye to my house, and climbed the mountain to scatter my mom’s ashes. It was yet another weekend of loss.

Site
View of site where I scattered my mom’s ashes.
Site

But now — I’m looking forward again. Looking forward to the move, to the next phase of my life. Not doing much writing — some — but it’s all exercises and therapy fic that will never see the light of day. ::shudders::

Hope ya’ll are having a lovely summer.

40 thoughts on “Still not dead”

  1. Congratulations on the lovely new house! I hope the new life that goes with it will turn out even better than you are hoping for.

    1. Thank you! You and Larry will have to come up and visit sometime. That is, after I move in and maybe get some furniture *G*

  2. Lovely, lovely house. V. glad you’re still not dead. 🙂 You’re much braver than me. I still can’t scatter my dad’s ashes…

    Hugs,
    T

    1. I’m glad I’m not dead too. *G*

      As for scattering my mom’s ashes — my family has a tradition of flying. My mom was an aeronautical engineer. My family tells stories about itself. Now we have a new myth — that I was so high in the world (above 10,000 feet) and it was so windy (because it really was) my mom’s ashes scattered around the world in a matter of minutes.

      So maybe you need to think about the myth that you want to build around the process. It sure helped me — my family. And now that it’s done — all I can say is that I feel lighter, if that makes any sense.

  3. We never really entirely leave a place…

    because so much of it lives in our heads, or in our actions. That said, May your new new start in Seattle be fulfilling for you- and my envy to you for being by one of my favorite harbors. Seattle is a good place.

    *hug*

    1. Re: We never really entirely leave a place…

      True — and I will remember this place where I’m living now. But it’s just one of many, with good times and bad times. There are other places, with other memories just waiting to be lived.

      You’ll have to come and visit sometime.

      ::hugs::

      1. Re: We never really entirely leave a place…

        “But it’s just one of many, with good times and bad times.”

        Just so- and in your new place, may the good times fill a barrel and the bad fill a teaspoon.

        And be careful inviting strange men to your home-especially sailors! 🙂

        *hug*

  4. Congratulations on the lovely new house! I hope the new life that goes with it will turn out even better than you are hoping for.

  5. Lovely, lovely house. V. glad you’re still not dead. 🙂 You’re much braver than me. I still can’t scatter my dad’s ashes…

    Hugs,
    T

    1. I’m glad I’m not dead too. *G*

      As for scattering my mom’s ashes — my family has a tradition of flying. My mom was an aeronautical engineer. My family tells stories about itself. Now we have a new myth — that I was so high in the world (above 10,000 feet) and it was so windy (because it really was) my mom’s ashes scattered around the world in a matter of minutes.

      So maybe you need to think about the myth that you want to build around the process. It sure helped me — my family. And now that it’s done — all I can say is that I feel lighter, if that makes any sense.

  6. We never really entirely leave a place…

    because so much of it lives in our heads, or in our actions. That said, May your new new start in Seattle be fulfilling for you- and my envy to you for being by one of my favorite harbors. Seattle is a good place.

    *hug*

    1. Re: We never really entirely leave a place…

      True — and I will remember this place where I’m living now. But it’s just one of many, with good times and bad times. There are other places, with other memories just waiting to be lived.

      You’ll have to come and visit sometime.

      ::hugs::

      1. Re: We never really entirely leave a place…

        “But it’s just one of many, with good times and bad times.”

        Just so- and in your new place, may the good times fill a barrel and the bad fill a teaspoon.

        And be careful inviting strange men to your home-especially sailors! 🙂

        *hug*

  7. Charlotte

    The place looks lovely. ^__^
    So, where is the place you’re going to write?
    Good luck and keep me updated, please.

    ps. um…i know it might be too late….but do you mind if I add your web to the link of my blog (though only few articles are in English)?

    1. Re: Charlotte

      Hey Charlotte —

      No problem about adding me at all. Want to give me the URL so that I can link to it too?

      The place I generally write is from my chair, which will be in the living room.

      Will try to keep people updated, but right now, life’s kind of crazy.

      Hope all is going well with you — know that I think of you often.

      Me

      1. Re: Charlotte

        thanks very much.
        my blog is http://www.wretch.cc/blog/medmusicus

        As for now, i am doing alright– will be better if I can pass the exam at the end of september. then I am leaving here and prepare for another exam — sort of like never-ending story for me.

        I believe everything will get better and better.
        Good luck and keep in touch. ^__^

  8. Charlotte

    The place looks lovely. ^__^
    So, where is the place you’re going to write?
    Good luck and keep me updated, please.

    ps. um…i know it might be too late….but do you mind if I add your web to the link of my blog (though only few articles are in English)?

    1. Re: Charlotte

      Hey Charlotte —

      No problem about adding me at all. Want to give me the URL so that I can link to it too?

      The place I generally write is from my chair, which will be in the living room.

      Will try to keep people updated, but right now, life’s kind of crazy.

      Hope all is going well with you — know that I think of you often.

      Me

      1. Re: Charlotte

        thanks very much.
        my blog is http://www.wretch.cc/blog/medmusicus

        As for now, i am doing alright– will be better if I can pass the exam at the end of september. then I am leaving here and prepare for another exam — sort of like never-ending story for me.

        I believe everything will get better and better.
        Good luck and keep in touch. ^__^

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